Sharedadvntr
5 min readNov 22, 2020

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First Sharing . . . a big step for me.

First Sharing . . . a big step for me.

Another big step for me in my sexual evolution resulted from the early days of chatting. Staring somewhere in a regional interest group I connected with a very interesting lady. She was passionate about caring for the elderly working in care centers. What a rare and valuable trait in someone. A neglected part of society, I was very interested to know more about this woman. We chatted a lot about the business of taking care of the elderly (so many homes are just centers for cash and abuse) and what is required to make a healthy facility. She mentioned her boyfriend one time and the door to more intimate revelations about our personal lives opened up.

I was fascinated by this lady and her relationship. They were very dedicated to each other, having been together for over a decade. However, they were very open in their sexuality. Their particular kink was having select men over to their place where they would talk and relax then she would take the new man into their bedroom to enjoy fully. Her bf would remain outside the bedroom but would come in now and then to take photos. As soon as they finished, the lover departed. She would then retell her experience to her bf as he got off and they fucked again. He loved hearing about her sexual encounter. I was amazed at this openness in a secure and dedicated relationship. Another new horizon for me.

We chatted openly for almost a year, as I had given up on every meeting this interesting lady. One lonely Friday I dropped a ‘hello’ when I saw her online. She shared how it was nice to connect and asked what I was up to on this Friday. I replied, “Nothing much, typical boring Friday night.” She shocked me by asking, “Why not come over and have a beer with us?” My jaw dropped and my heart raced. “Really?’, I thought to myself? Would I? With her husband there? A real WTF moment for me.

For whatever reason, my gut told me to just go meet them and then decide about how I felt, if opportunity opened up. So, I showered, hopped into the car and drove to their condominium. Greeted by her at the door with a nice smile, she welcomed me in, her husband greeting me with a nice firm handshake. All was very cool, relaxed. Yet there was a fun tension. I handed me a Guinness (nice touch, since she knew I loved it) and we sat in the living room to relax and get the feel of one another.

I was amazed at how normal and right it all felt. The most important factor was how mellow the bf was. I began relaxing and integrating in my head how normal it all felt despite being so very unusual to me. She sat on the sofa close to me as we talked about their fun interests. The bf revealed he was a porn collector and had a wonderful PC, hard drives, and an intense collection of porn they enjoyed and collected. He loved it when she had a man over, enjoyed the sex, then shared it with him. The only rule is to limit the connection to sex, no deep conversation or talk.

After about 20–30 minutes of relaxing chat she reached over to sensually grasp my hand and said, “I think it is time we went to the bedroom.” The bf stood up and said, “Go enjoy!” in the most encouraging manner. (WTF again!) We went to the bedroom and she immediately started undressing, as did I. She had a trim body, smallish, firm, nice breasts, and was obviously ready and eager to begin. We kissed deeply as our hands explored each other’s bodies. As my hand found her pussy, I discovered she was soaking wet, dripping down her inner thighs. Always a reaffirming sign.

We fell onto the bed lost in one another — hungry to feel, to taste, to explore. My mind was empty of any thought regarding the presence of her bf. She felt great and we soon found ourselves in a wonderful 69 with her on top. Her pussy was spread over my face as I tongued her, probed her, and licked her clit as I learned how best bring her greater intensity. Suddenly I hear, “You two look like you are really enjoying one another!” Her bf was standing right next to my head with his camera as he took a number of shots of me eating her out. My face was covered in her juices as I smiled and said, “Yes indeed!” My mind was racing taking all of this in: her bf was loving this and taking pics of me fully enjoying his gf!

After getting the shots he wanted, he left the room as we continued. Eventually I was on top of her, her legs spread, ass pulled up as I fucked her deeply and with abandon. She had orgasmed several times, so it was now my time for release as I pounded away deep inside of her. She was gasping and pulling me deep in my thrusts as my orgasm hit its peak. I slammed deep and felt the pulses of cum shoot into her. We held each other deep like that as I continued to empty with hard shots of cum until I was drained. Sweating and breathing hard, we just stopped in motion to savor the feelings and begin coming down from the high.

We lay there for a bit just talking and shared a few intimacies in the moment. She confided that their favorite activity was having a guy over that would let them BOTH suck him off then having the guest cum while the two of them would share in the cum load, kissing and savoring the result. (Whoa, one step at a time for me. File that away for future reflection.) She told me of a heart condition he had and her worries, but we stopped as we heard him outside the door. He did not want us getting close and talking. So, she thanked me and we got dressed.

I left the bedroom and he met me, shook my hand and thanked me as I exited their condo. That was it.

Me, As I walked to the car: “Did I just do this?”

Another door opened for me.

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Sharedadvntr

Decades worth of experiences, adventures in life, relationships, reflections, and growth — damn difficult to put into a bio. ;-) 16 years of living abroad.